After inviting herself (in a round about way) my WAW came to a Fundraiser as my date. She had a very hard week and was very obviously tried. The mood was a little tenses, but we did have we had a good non-R conversation. There were other people at the table, which gave us others to visit with. W had two glasses of wine. After about an hour the mood relaxed and we began to enjoy each other’s company (at least I did and I think she did as well). At the end of the evening I walked her to her car. When we got to the car she turned to give me a huge and I planted a very passionate open mouth kiss and a nice too tight hug on her. That hug and kiss lasted at least 2 – 3 minutes. I can’t remember the last time we kissed and hug like that. It became very passionate and I could hear and feel her pleasure. I know she became aroused…. I know I was. I asked her to come home for the night and W turned down the offer. She said that we weren’t suppose make out. We both acted like teenagers for a couple of minutes. After a couple of peek kiss on the lips, she finally broke away and got in her car. I told her that I loved her, but she did not return the phrases. I know I am not suppose to say that, but I thought is was appropriate at the time.
I may have played my hand a little too strong. But I have been thinking about sometime like this for months. I would like to think she drove back to her place thinking about how turn on she was in that brief moment of time. I hoping it will be another little step forward.
The question is: Did I do any damage?
She could have stopped this encounter, but did not. Do you think she just wants to see if we can rekindle our relationship we once had? She keeps saying she just want to be friends, but she is not pushing or even talking the big D.
Do you think she is just trying to keep the relationship on that footing (friendship) by participating in encounters like this one?
I know you should not believe anything they say and half of what they do, but I think she wanted just as much and enjoyed it just much as I did
Your insights on this situation would be appreciated.
