Love that you picked up the provocative things in the e-mails- Austin and I thought we might try an experiment on him where I ambiguously pick up on things he says and see if he responds or backs off. 'You're really hot' refers to his fever, of course. TLC and brow-mopping pick up on things he asked me to do on Tuesday, so I wasn't just coming up with them out of the blue. The theory is that if he doesn't like it he'll back off and if he continues it I know he actually IS interested. You should have seen some of Austin's suggestions for responses I should send- they were filthy!
H said he wasn't going with the aubergine- just his cousins and brother, but who knows. If he was taking her I suppose at least it'd be a prolonged period of time alone together; from what I can tell they don't spend a huge amount of time together apart from at weekends. Again, who knows. A week off for me will be good; time to rethink and recharge.
I'm not sure about asking him what's going on. Everything he does says he's confused, so no doubt that'd be what he'd say to me and things would be no clearer. To be honest, I think I have to decide for myself how much longer to do this and what else I can try. I guess I could try the complimenting thing for longer and see how that works. Me backing off doesn't seem to work so there's not much point conitnuing that.
Yesterday I sent him a quick text to say he could join me and some friends for a night out if he was free (Jody suggested I try that). He declined and made a comment about the football. I'll try that again a few more times so he gets to hear about how great my GAL is a bit more.
How's your weekend going? Are you going to start a new thread?
The theory is that if he doesn't like it he'll back off and if he continues it I know he actually IS interested. You should have seen some of Austin's suggestions for responses I should send- they were filthy!
