Q&A with the WAS

[cotoffgard]

Here's a scenario that I'd like to vet with WAW's...

Let's say hypothetically speaking *wink* that you made a decision to leave you H, without any explicit notice that you wanted out of the M, took the day off to pack your stuff and moved out, wrote a "Dear John" letter, and filed for D.

Question #1: What would you be thinking/feeling if your LBS, with the exception of 2 short, non-pursuing emails since the day you left, went "dark" for...oh, I dunno...say a month and a half?

Question #2: Keeping in mind that the LBS went dark (or at least very dim) immediately after you left him and did not plead, beg, argue, etc., what would you be feeling as a result of the lack of contact? Phrased another way, would you be expecting he LBS to plead/beg, and would it upset you that the LBS did not act the way you expected?

Question #3: How would you react if after 1.5 months of silence your LBS wrote you a letter/email to basically apologize for his contributions to the deterioration of the marriage but no mention of "trying to work things out" or any other variations of pleading or begging?

Question #4: Same scenario but disregard Q #3...if your LBS wrote you a letter after 1.5 months of mutual vows of silence, what would you like your LBS to have written?

Wow...these are pretty tough I might add...

Thanks in advance, guys!