OK.. one more post and I swear I'm done! Regarding #3 above.. I didn't say anything to H so far about leaving the phone in the car. Thoughts on this? Part of me wants to thank him for it, while part of me things that thanking him for the wonderful day "says" it without sounding like I'm trying to control him or something. (in other words... "thank you for the wonderful day!!" [which happened to include leaving the cell in the car which he was VERY obvious and deliberate about] vs. "thank you for the wonderful day and especially for leaving your cell phone in the car so we could enjoy it even more!" [which thanks him for the specific action... but is it TOO 'pushy' or something?]

My overactive brain is kicking in.. .. time to catch up quickly with others then go to bed.

Thanks so much, everyone, for your support.

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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