Well guys... it has all gone horribly, horribly wrong.
I spoke to my wife last night. She phoned to ask what time I was going to see our daughter. I mentioned I would have a chat with her and she responded in distant and careless tones.
It was too much.
I told her what I thought. I told her I couldn't believe her behaviour and attitude towards me after all we have been doing together again... as a family and a couple. I told her I believed she had not properly ended the affair and I said I understood all my words were falling on deaf ears. She listened, saying NOTHING, until I told her that she has acted with horrendous selfishness. Then she refused to listen and went.
It gets worse. I HAD ENOUGH. I CRACKED. I AM SO ANGRY AND UPSET AND HURT.
I e-mailed the OM and told him everything... and after that I phoned and spoke to her 'friend' in the USA. I told her friend (who has been involved with the infidelity since the beginning) all that has happened. Her friend listened carefully, said she thought something was wrong and feels (once again) betrayed and used by my wife (as she has lied TO EVERYONE about what she has been doing)
I went to sleep.
I woke up and checked my e-mails and received this from the OM. I have taken out names:
"well mate, i liked to thank you for telling me this. because she was acting weird for a while and we fell out and i should of known it was you. it came across my mind that you two have been messin around. thats why that divorce is not final yet. i think she was wanting her cake and eat it too. why the hell would she have sex with you and a relationship and doesnt think its going to get back to me. did she really think you wouldnt end up tellin me. well, you can have her back because i do believe you because it all fits you know, regardless of what you think of me, i loved her so much. i got her 200 hundred dollars eaarings for her b-day. nice flowers by the way, she told me they were from work. i loved her to the point where i should of seen the signs but i was in denial. and maybe you are the only guy who can handle all her bullshit. well, i really dont wanna talk to her ever again and im serious this time buddy. i know your tellin the truth, about her and this guy at the bus stop that i just found out about. i like to thank you for sayin this because i have a great job and alot of friends and was going to give it up all for that and now im glad i found out b4 i actually went over there. i would of lost everything. Good luck with her because shes a crazy ass whore that likes to [censored] around on ppl. i cant believe this whole year has been a lie."
I don't know anymore. I think my wife is ill.
Anyway, I then sent her a message by text and told her:
'You are a liar and a cheat. You lie to your friends, you own family and even your own little girl. How you have treated the people around you is a disgrace. I do not want to talk to you. Do not contact me'
I think our marriage is over for good. I am devastated.
