Update- Going forward. I now have promising leads in my new job search- two new contacts, a new friend and a staffing agent I met both have jobs they are recommending me for. Then, I've been meeting tons of new people at meetup groups and special interest groups in my area. It's really fun. I find myself actually forgetting about stbx for periods of time. Yes, there are some frightening moments when something reminds me and then I have those 'what if' if could be fixed nonesense thoughts all over again. But, somehow I've been able to contain those and then they drift away. So, I'm looking onward and upward to a new job, then my own place and maybe even a new doggy friend. The more I focus on my new life, the more it happens!
Last edited by New Path RJ; 09/21/0806:43 AM.
Me 40 H 39 2nd M- 6 months No kids Previous D, 1st M DBer from 2003
