And I know this is significant because how do you love your W's father and not love your W???
Well, my dad and my mom's dad stayed pretty close, even after the divorce. So, I guess it can happen. Though I don't know that I'd say they were buddies, they were not strangers. But, I think you are right, especially at this point, it is significant. And your H apologizing seems to me to be significant. That never struck me as a German strong point.
