i know i always USED to attract the whack jobs that would propose on date #2, stalkers, freakshow guys
it was me doing that
when i realized what type of person i REALLY wanted to attract and then tailored behaviors and such for that (you know...what we put out into the universe is what we get back)
I also attract "whack jobs that would propose on date #2, stalkers, freakshow guys." Although in the past year or two they are fewer in number.
I had a discussion with a friend where I told him it was me. He said his W was/is also approached by the same type of people. She just set the boundary down very firmly immediately.
I think part of it is what we put out. I think part of it is how we react when we are approached by these types of people.
I have gotten much firmer at nipping R's with these types of people in the bud.
I recognized and took very decisive action immediately when I met one at the Resort. He was persistent but he finally got the message.
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my relationships with those people that are important to me improved and when crazy happened to venture in, i was able to get rid of it in record time
I think having the mindset where one is willing and able to take action to get rid of the nut jobs is a part of what we put out in the universe. I think freaky people can smell fear.
Thank you for a very thoughtful post fig. I appreciate it.
