I think her behavior indicates that she has slipped back into her affair.
I think your plan is a good one, considering, technically, you're supposedly still at the "she wants you, 100%, and has ended it" CLAIM, anyway.
DQ makes some PHENOMENAL points, and gives great insight into your wife's mind. I'm afraid to say, your wife is ONLY going to respond to strength right now -- not "melty man."
