yup!
I totally 'get' what you are saying!!
I have had a couple crushes on guys thru the years, but it didn't take long for the shine to wear off and then they were just 'another guy'. Which was good, since I was/am married. LOL

It does make me 'worry' that I won't find someone else that I love like my H, but on the other hand- I don't like how my husband "loves" me. And maybe, if I was being really loved and cherished, *maybe* I could get the oogly googlys for someone else...maybe.

It's a quandry, isn't it?

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing