Soooo....even though it was a non-date...was there any chemistry?
hmmm.... not enough to make me feel confused or anything. (Had there been a lot of chemistry, I would probably feel very conflicted and guilty.) So, actually, even though it might *seem* like it would be cool to have chemistry, I am glad there wasn't really any.
He did try for a kiss when we hugged goodbye in the parking lot. (And before anyone gets up in arms, I hug all my friends and even clients once I know them. It was one of 'those' sorts of hugs. Not a romantic hug.)
Even if I was no longer in limbo-land, I don't think I would want to exclusively date anyone at this juncture. It's been 13+ years since I've seen what's out there- don't want to cut off my options too soon. That, and I need time to heal. heh- of course, I know myself well enough to know that if I did feel a great deal of chemistry for someone, I probably would happily 'settle down'.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
