Thanks CW. \:\)
I saw the song lyrics you posted- those were good.

The last time I spoke verbally to my H was Monday. And it was *maybe* a 5 minute convo. Since then it has been the 3 brief (VERY brief) text message exchanges.

At this point, I think that me reaching out to make sure he wasn't dead was enough. I think he is using 'sick' as an excuse to avoid me. Could be wrong, but doubt it. I think it was important for him to know I was concerned for his welfare. Now he knows I am not 'mad', per se.

So, I will leave him be. That's fine. I have plenty of other stuff to do.
I know Nik said not to get hung up on feeling liked I screwed up because of "timing", but it sure is hard NOT to beat myself up about it. \:\(

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing