I have maintained limited contact... he has self-limited.
He promised if he ever did that again he would be 'done'.
Acting like that crosses his own boundary of acceptable behaviour that's what I was trying to say in my post from yesterday.
He called last night to tell me that and to work out the details of D's custody.
He asked what he could ever do for me to trust him enough to let him back into my life in anyway shape or form... I told him the first thing I needed to see was for him to get into IC and get a real handle on his anger & self-esteem issues.
He shared that the C he saw a year ago, told him that he needed to leave me, since I'm the only one he does this with, that the only answer would be to 'not be around me'. He was not willing to do that.
I'm confused and still numb.
I have spent my morning outside, washed windows, cleaned the gutters on the house & garage, raked leaves, mowed off my spring flowers, planted my fall ones.
I have a family (2nd cousin) wedding to attend today...I'm skipping the wedding (not sure I can handle that ceremony right now) and going to the supper & dance.
Peace Bridge
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.
