NLT how are you doing today? The others are right. When/if you talk to SIL keep the convo light and she says things about your h just listen but don't be a part of the gossip.
They must blame others to feel good about themselves. Your h needs to figure this one out for himself. Nothing you can do to help him at this time.
Take care of you NLT. Remember be at PEACE with your life for now. That was your message!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"