Yeah I don't think it was a major backslide maybe a babystep backwards...nothing serious. Back to darkness.
I think my short term plan (2 to 3 weeks)is to get him comfy with me alone (which means no R talk and no mentioning what happened in the past) so that he gets comfortable being around me. Then working my way up to little places with him and D such as the park or club (once again no R talk and no past events and staying calm) then getting back to going to a movie or eating out alone. I've been trying to jump to going places such as parties with him and that's too much too fast and also leads to over stepping boundaries.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
