Matilda, My W and I both agree that this was our best trip together ever. We do travel well together.
We spent a lot of time sitting on the beach. We went snorkeling several times, spending time with sea turtles. We ventured into Honolulu, particularly Chinatown, and found a food market to try foods from the eastern part of the world. We went dancing twice, and found a salsa club, with a small community like ours. We rented a convertible, and drove it around Maui, with the beautiful mountains and ocean scenery. We visited the Pearl Harbor site.
It wasn't perfect. Most of the fussing occurred during the transition parts--needing to be on-time for flights, and finding hotels.
i'M hoping that we can take a vacation together at least every six months (she would want this too). I noticed that the more connection we had, the greater desire I had for intimacy.
For me, there has to be connection, in order to pursue intimacy. I can't (or won't) pursue intimacy if we're functioning as roommates.
I will continue to cultivate a happy mind and lifestyle, and connection in the M.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
