To be honest I think goal 3 might be pretty ambitious for the short term as the goals are supposed to be things that can be accomplished in a matter of weeks. I might phrase it something more like getting a clear indication that you and your H will move back in together.
In terms of the plan, what are the things that will show you that your H is willing/ready to move back in? Recommitting is also a pretty big step that you have as part of your plan. Instead could it something like he says that he HOPES that things will work out, or he starts making future plans with you?
Only saying this because I've gotten burned by setting some pretty big goals and getting disappointed when they weren't met. I now have smaller goals that will tell me we're going in the right direction, things like "H will call me a term of endearment." Then next to the smaller goals I list how I can influence them. In this example, it was me using funny nicknames with H and always joking around and being upbeat. The goal was achieved.
Hope this is helpful...
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
