So I am THE obsessive planner. Not sure if you want to follow my lead as you have seen what a weird sitch I'm in, but I do like having lots of goals as it helps me to realize what I can have an impact on.
Basically I have 3 major goals, broken down into loads of mini goals that will indicate to me that we are moving in the right direction.
I think 3 major goals makes sense, and it seems to be the number of goals used in DR. In terms of him re-establishing contact, I'd say going dark has to be the one thing you can control to ensure that he does this. What would your other goals be?
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
