Hi,

Daisy--I haven't scheduled another joint phone session, and I'm not going to unless H specifically asks again. Jody suggested that they are not necessarily helpful for me, as I am likely to bear the brunt of his rage. She thinks they might serve the purpose of diffusing his anger and ensuring he is heard, but we both agreed that unless he actively pushes for the sessions, I will just let the idea die...In terms of specific projects, unfortunately it's more of the same, stay dark, and IF given the opportunity tell him that he gave me a lot to think about.

T, you're right about not playing games. I do need to make sure that whatever I say is authentic. Therefore, "you've given me a lot to think about" is actually probably fine as he really has given me a lot to think about. However saying I'm not working on the marriage isn't true...Thanks for highlighting this. I'm sure WASs can sense inauthenticity.

Thanks!

ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!