Of course it can. Every single relationship we invest our hearts into has the potential to break them. Every. Single. One.
If you lose or throw this marriage away, because instead of working you put up walls to hide from the pain, what will make you feel secure in another one? What will make you feel safe with yourself?
Sweetie, you don't get past pain. You don't get over it, around it, or under it. You gotta go through it.
Get the notebooks back out and tell him you care about your marriage. (((limbo)))
