I too flip flop on whether to be friends or not. Not being friends seems to go against what my goal is, but I understand it. Sort of.
Wdid has told me, right now, no friendship. She has done this thing. She still wants the best of both worlds.
IF she divorces me, then something else to consider. Who knows what will happen after D. For us to decide how to deal with it. Not them. OUR decision IF we still want to pursue them. The things we are doing right now are supposed to give us a chance. To let them realize things. If D still comes, then total different plan. WE decide it we pursue it or not.
But the advice given to you and I is "No being friends".
Boy, that ILY really messed with you. I couldn't even imagine.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
