I'm not sure what to do for the best in that regard.
I can tell you that, in my experience, telling my wife I loved her seems to be like telling her something she doesn't want to hear about 80% of the time.
She seems to be in a place where, if she can meet me and we DO NOT mention the fact that we do indeed have feelings for each other, everything is 100% okay. (She DOES and HAS acknowledged them... but when SHE feels like doing so... and one day to the next how she feels seems to change)
Over the last 3 months she has told me she loved me very much. Then, over the course of THREE DAYS, completely changed her mind. She now 'loves me but it is not enough'
THREE DAYS seperate 'I love you... we are working on things' and 'I love you but it is not enough'
I'm sorry... ranting now... but when confronted by such emotionally unstable individuals... how can we know?
