it took me about two years to get to where i could forgive h but there were moments where i would become angry and since we are human, that is to be expected. it is a process which takes some time.
as for the ultimatums, etc. - the way i look at it is this: did Jesus issue ultimatums and deadlines to people? no, he did not. people knew what they were supposed to do and it is up to them.
we are to be kind one toward another, always forgiving as Christ hath forgave us.
just some things for you to think about!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
