New Abbreviation for everyone IX

[Starshyne]

You know I am now living in the after divorce world and my xh wants to be friends. Or he is trying to get me back. The jury is still out on that one. He calls me 4-5 times a day. I try my best not to answer the phone calls, but it is difficult because I hate having to let go of my marriage and the friendship we had. However, it hurts SO badly after I talk to him. The other day he asked me if I would like to come and see his new apartment. I told him no. I said that I am still trying to heal and seeing his apartment would hurt too much.

So Jeff....right now you really can't be friends with her. It is way too painful. You still love her. Wait and see how things play out and then decide from there. Remember to keep looking at those actions and not the words.

sara