W isn't working, and has pretty much found that she can't with her depression she tends to get emotional at work, so at the moment she is at home.
"Has lending your W money helped or hurt your sitch? Or has it stayed the same?" - I don't think it is helping the situation as such, but isn't taking me backwards either.
Warning rambling alert
On another note, she changed her Facebook status to something along the lines of "does not like being alone" or something like that. I have stood by what I said before and spend minimal time on there and do not go on chat when she is on there. Also, she has a semi-happy tone when she is on her own or with the kids, but when there is someone else around, she is quite short with me. I am very slowly cutting of the communication with W for the moment as it hurts me whenever I see her, or think about her. At the moment, i think that the glamour of the separation (really a breakup) is starting to wear off. only thing is right now i'm not sure if being together is looking much better aside from financially.
I've had my rambling now
t7-years m3-years Me:22 W:27 Wifes kids (love them like my own) D-10 D-7 Our Kids S-3