He said it just happened, no big deal.

[Lyn]

My H told me that the only regret he has was ML to me and her at the same time and because of that her M was ruined as well. Puppy, after reading your advice I am hopefully optimistic but still working on making my needs come first.

OMG mine said that I should be happy he didn't ML at the same time (although I think he probably lied about that) but also that he felt so bad that I (meaning me) ruined her life because her H was brought to the party!!! What about ruining my LIFE, his KIDS LIVES!! He's lucky I haven't shot him or stabbed him or something *#&% worse and what other symbols mean swear words.