sooners:

as you know, my h has been gone on/off for a little over two years now. during this time, we have given him birthday cards and i have given him anniversary cards. nothing really romantic at all but they were nice. h never said anything about the cards but i do know he keeps everything.

i guess what i am trying to say is don't expect her to say anything although since you sent flowers, she may acknowledge them.

just know in your heart and thru prayer, you did what you were led to do. there is nothing wrong with that.

i would just be still for now.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19