Wow Jeff. Are you sure we haven't met before? Lol.
I am a talker and I have been learning that it comes across as controlling. And my hubbys is sooo not a talker. We just clash.
I think I will call around on Tuesday to find a IC and just set up the appointment. My MC offered to call the new C and give background info so that will probably be helpful. I will just have to tell the new C what kind of changes I need to work on from my POV and then if/when hubby decides to come back around I can see if he wants to add anything to the list like the MC suggested.
Even if he contacts by Tuesday I will probably not bring it up because I do not want him to feel pressure. He said in our session that he was not able to give a list right then but if he thought about it he could and that he was on board with going to IC. So we shall see.
