Out of limbo land

[nerraw]

Thanks for all the pointers. I'm pretty much back to the minimal contact as much as possible.I'm letting her contact me. I've had to call her twice for some daycare stuff and when I went out of town. When we do talk we catch up on whats gone on. As for my son we went to Philly last week to see the great grandparents and had a wonderful time, except for dealing with TSA. I lost my ID and that wasn't fun getting back on the plane. TSA has ruined travel but that's for another blog sometime. Anyway still talking with W just not about anything on the R. Had a moment that she seemed to slip up a little and said something really nice followed by a hug that wasn't just a friendly hug. I'm not gonna take it for more than it was but it was nice to feel some warmth again. Finally to the point where I know I'll be okay either way things happen. We do share a wonderful kid and if being a parent is all that is left of our relationship then right now there is no one else I would want to share that with.

Jayce before jumping to conclusions in our family "kid" is an term of endearment both of us use. I know it can be interpreted as an insensitive term but different strokes for different folks.

Well I have to get to bed I have a busy weekend ahead.