We all backslide. Keeping doing your 180 & GAL, listen to her, try to undertand her point of view. You are not going to get any straight answers right now. Just work on yourself & your happiness & have patients.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)