Yeah you're probably right forrest....it's the impact, the fallout, the repercussions, the triggers etc that I don't think they understand after the event.

I wish my h would talk to me about it and show that he is sorry for acting that way and take responsibility for his actions. The way I think it is, he is ashamed that he lost control like that and doesn't want to think/talk about it.

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As soon as you trust yourself you will know how to live. Goethe