So I was just sitting here thinking about how I am ever going to learn to "drop things" when he clams up or starts getting mean and I realized that I did that on Tuesday and it still backfired! What in the world am I gonna do with this man! I do what he doesn't want me to and he gets all pissy and mean but if I leave him alone he just gets even more upset. But then if I tell him we should just leave it alone and try to have fun together I get rejected further.
It's like this
I offer to talk it out: no I offer to give space: he gets pissed and leaves I offer to drop the whole thing and just focus on having fun: he refuses to hang out with me
