Betsey-ok so reading your post made me feel even more connected...xh - he didn't have an "affair" till later...long story short he bailed..kinda like yours accept unlike yours mine is a runner..... this time he ran from me...he did me ow only 2 weeks after leaving....he partied like there was no tomorrow... now i dont know what he is doing...dont know much of anything really.

trying to take the steps..do the do.. bla bla bla. =) i know it is what you have to do but well you know...

oh yeah -- my birthday is around the corner....ugh.


M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06
Moved out 3/12/07
D final 7/30/2008
finding myself again