Just hang in there sweetie!! This part is always the hardest when you first decide to go dark. It actually does get easier and easier. Don't even dwell on the things that he needs to change right now. You can't make him change right now, he has to do it on his own, so there is no point in obesessing over it right now.
I think you should only focus on you at the moment. Are there anythings about you that you would like to improve or work on? And I don't just mean on the relationship end..anything.
