I'm with Distressed67. I'm not sure what you mean by the boundary being crossed....I mean..I clearly see that your h has crossed a boundary (again) by intimidating you in that way, however, if you are referring to your h saying that you have crossed a boundary, I don't get it.
I'm glad you guys aren't in the same house.
I don't think guys understand how it makes a woman feel when they physically threaten/intimidate their spouse. I know that when h threatened me and pushed me (the one and only time and if he did it again it would be a deal breaker) I had a friend come over and stay for a couple of days. h rang two hours after the 24hr police order expired (during which time he wasn't allowed to contact me) and seemed suprised that my friend was staying there. He asked me why and I said I was scared. He hung up. He later sent me a text saying that if I thought that he would harm me then I didn't know him very well. that p1ssed me off. he had no clue of how I was feeling.
I don't know if there is anything I can advise, I can only empathise and wish calls were free to the USofA.
Hugs to you sexy cowboy hat lady...
** Purple
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