hey, just want to say, becareful how you go about this. Don't turn this into a hateful and vengeful sitch. It's not about you not being nice, or being nice. You are respectful and happy and pleasant and a good mom because you should be. because that what you should be for Kendall and as an example to Kendall, and as an example to your H.
It doesn't mean to let him walk all over you and be bullied, no, it is still a tough love, but it's not a mean love. You DO need to protect yourself, but do it in a calm and respectful way, that sets fair boundaries that protect you and Kendall. You don't want this to turn ugly, and you don't want to just react from your recent information.
Don't talk to him about it whatsoever. You just get your legal stuff in place and act like nothing different. He chose to have another family, so this is what your giving him.
and don't think that H is just hunkey dorey about this...I have a feeling that their R is going to crumble as well. it's just a matter of time. no R can be build soundly on a false foundation.
Lean on the Lord and he'll support you. Be thankful that you've had this recent sense of detachment because had you not, you may be in a much much worse position mentally right now. I cannot imagine the pain you are going thru. I will be praying for you. Give this all to God, let him carry this burden for you.
((((B)))))
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
