Thanks Kat for the kind words, I feel bad that I don't post to others as much as I should and you are a great person I'm glad you latched onto my post and continue to look in on me, same goes for H4H, whatdidido, Karen, Puppy, Cat, Germ and Starshyne just to name a few.
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whatdidido, It is what is keeping your mind off of what your W is doing. It is allowing you to still love her, Her speech was like a little current you got caught in for a bit and will get out of.
its hard keeping my mind off of her, everytime I come here, I'm thinking of her, I know she wants to move on, she always says, I deserve better than her, I always told her I deserve to be with the one I love.
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Starshyne (Sara) But everyone kept reminding me that the words dont' mean a lot. Actions are what really count.
I needed to hear this, and I need to keep remembering this, her actions say goodbye.
Questions for everyone, she is pushing into my life, called me two times today, I'm taking the kids to our parish picnic Saturday and she said she would meet me up their for a couple of hours, she wants to be friends This is hard for me to consider, What would happen in her mind if I was open to her friendship, right now I don't even acknowledge she is in the same room with me, it would be wierd to be out with her having fun and bam !!! she heads off for OM. Do I gain more from staying dark or opening up and being fun and outgoing with her. Do I become a door mat ?
I posted this once before "the battle may be lost but not the war" - and I don't even know why I'm thinking this way right now, like I said the I Love You speech really messed with my head.
just keep swimming, just keep swimming
W41 M10.75 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 W files for D 07/18/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never
