There is nothing that you did that caused this. Not in any part of your life at any time. You need to somehow let yourself understand that he is damaged goods. You did not cause him to be this way it is just how he is. Stop giving any of this any more of your time, heart or effort. She did not get pregnant because they were meant to be. That is just his dememted way of looking at it, hoping you will finally hate him enough to let go. He is mean to you so you will hate him and let go. This is the only way he can justify his own horrible behaviour.
He is a child playing at being a man and doing a very poor job of it. You do not need this and really if you think hard and long about it, do you really want this type of person involved in your life? I think you were getting to a place to know the answer to this and then he knocked you down again, hard.
Get back up. Get moving on protecting yourself in every way you can. Surround yourself with people who love you and let them insulate you from all of his garbage for awhile until you have gained your balance again.
Please listen to us regarding the legal issues. If you delay because you are trying to be nice or just because it is hard and this child is born I will bet you right now, she will be in court before the ink is dry on that baby's birth cert to get first dips on his earnings. She will ofcourse tell him she is doing it to make sure that "they" get the money instead of you and Kendall but trust us she will do it and fast. Get in line first and if it pisses him off, just ignore it. In a way it is you and Kendall against him and his OW now. Fight fast and hard so Kendall does not lose out. Doing this will also help you move on. Again, this isnt about anything flaw that you have or anything that you did, it is about his lack of human feelings. His loss, his fault, his problem to deal with. Nip it is the bud now, or in the future you will be getting calls once a month about how he cant pay you because new baby needs.......blah blah blah,
