I have a question, but I have to tell you my sitch, at least the last week of it.
We have been separated for just over 3 months. We live on the gulf coast and here Come IKE. It was heading our way. I called W and asked if she could come down and help board up the house. After some m and hawing she came down to help. While was down allegedly helping board up the house she helps for about 2 hours and goes off to get her hair done. 2 hours later she come home and telling me that she would like to get her nails done. So she leave and an hour later she calls and wants to have lunch and to meet at a local restaurant. I meet her there and tell me to set next to her at the table. I usually set across from her. We have a nice friendly talk and she leaves to go back the her apt. We kissed on the lips and she gave me we call a to tight hug for about 45 sec. and make a satisfying moan. I am thinking my DBing is working my second baby steps.
After she left I got to thinking, she did not come down here to see me or work on the house she came down here to get her hair cut and nails and toes done. The storm hits Saturday morning early and I am fine at the house and she is setting in her apt. with no water, and no electricity. I offer her the opportunity to come back home so she could work remotely and she decline the offer. She goes with lights and water for 4 days.
The more I thought about her doing her nails and hair the madder I got. I could not stand it ….I broke the DBing rules and called her told her what I thought about it. She told me that she did come to see me, she came down to work on the house. Then she tells me that she get more pleasure out her job than our R. She will never come back. I should just get use to it. She said she does want to date; she does want anything to do to with me. We talked for an hour and half.
I had invited her to a formal affair fundraiser the week earlier before the big blow up of mine. She emails me today hinting around if she could go to the fundraiser tonight. After she told me 6 days ago she didn’t want to date or have anything to do with me. I asked her if she would like to go and she said yes.
I am really CONFUSED! If she doesn’t want to date me and she doesn’t want to be around me, why is she hinting around to go and accept the invitation? What is going on here?
Am I crazy and am I reading this wrong….Does she not what she wants?
