I have to agree with the posters that have already posted.
I liked what Fig had to say in that you need to take things in small parts.
You need to worry about you and K. And pretty much nothing else.. its a waste of energy.
This is something that could be used against him.. This is also something that is going to hurt him in the long run.
The biggest thing right now.. is you are going to need to either GAL like you never have before.. or rest like you never have before. You need to pull everything thing you have together.. and stand up. Maybe even use some of that anger to distance yourself. Don't let the anger overwhelm you though.
Nothing in my mind has changed from the day I started posting to you. You cannot fight the character flaw he has.. no one can. If you keep trying to help him with it.. he is gonna drag you down with him.
You need to get things in writing and settled as fast as you can.. I mean move with the quickness. Get things in place to protect you and K.. before there is nothing left. Lets just say.. history repeats itself.. and when you make choices like he is.. you are setting yourself up for it to. You don't want to be standing there with your pants down when he leaves her. Maybe he won't but you need to make sure if he does.. you are safe and secure.
Listen to what people are telling you.. You can still do this with the heart you have. It does not have to be mean.. or vindictive. You just need to accept that now is the time to put some real protection on your side.. and get preparing for a life without him.
Worry about you and K... FOCUS on that..
We are all right here.. and there.. if you need us.
Now more than ever.. Keep your head up...
And..
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
