It did not go to bad. I arrived at the house and W was not there. I gathered up some clothes and W and SD16 came in. W told SD16 to go down to her aunts so we could talk. I started getting D11's stuff ready so when she comes over tonight. My W thought I was picking up D11 at the house and said that she was just going to walk over after school. She asked when I was leaving and said about 30 min because I had IC at 100.
We talked about some things that needed to be done around the house. Then she said I needed to help her fill out some paperwork. I said that I was going to see a L first. She said that she could not file until it was done. That I still did not get the fact that we are getting a D. I told her I realized that. She said again that I needed to help her. I said I am going to see a L first. Then she said you don't get what I am saying. I told her she did not get what I saying. She said that you are not going to make this easy and help me. Then I could fill out the paperwork with my L and she would do the same and then get together with the L to hash it out. I told her that was fine.
She said that she did not mean to hurt me. I said I know and I never meant to hurt her. That I don't regret marring her, just hurting her. I told her I still wanted to work it out, but I could not do it with three people in the marriage. She just agreed and nodded her head. Then she said that sooner or later I would find someone else who would just want to blah blah (past problems). I said I am not the same person anymore. I said I know what I want in a R and want go out and do more things as money allows. She said she wished I had found myself two years ago. Pretty much it then left for IC.
Talked with the C who had seen the W for a little while. She said that W is just running on whatever emotion is going on. That she is not thinking anything through or has any rational thoughts.
On that note, W had been wanting to get rid of her dog because when she moved it would be easier without pets. So for SD16's b-day my W got her a puppy. Go figure.
A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does
