You are in my thoughts and prayers. Do as everyone says and get a lawyer now. Don't let OW beat you to it. It won't work with them, I can almost promise you that and when the chips come tumbling down you want to make sure you and K are protected. He wants a D, give him what he wants. Take CS out of his check. I don't care if he makes peanutes, you make sure you and K get your share. I know that this hurts like hell. I am across the country hurting with you, but let this be the swift kick in the rear that you need to get you going. He is trash and you don't want him. He has no morals, no values, no ethics. Minimally he could have used protection until your D was final. How hard would that have been. Why any woman worth being called a woman would want to procreate with somone who is as much of a mess as him is way beyond me. As a woman with children of her own she should have demanded that they wait to have children until his D was final. If he really wanted to go this route he should have had the balls to divorce you from day one instead of trying to play on your emotions. Think about it, after this stunt, if he decides to come home, are you really going to want him? Move on. You have wasted too much of your time and tears on that fool!
