Forrest-Thanks for posting, I know you're under some time constaints. Under pressure is where I stand out & may give us some movement from the "stuck" position, in which direct is yet to be determined.
I haven't had the opportunity to do much different, as H left for another Mexico trip, just returning last night. I had the feeling he was in a hurry to get out of town for a while. Phone calls to S5 were friendly when I answered...just kept it to kids & schedules.
Before he left, a friend picked me up to go out, so my car was here & I wasn't. That seemed to shake him up a bit, but who really knows. While he's still in an A, I don't think much really has an impact.
I did notice that even those progressively took on a colder tone, the closer to his date of return.
He left a fairly friendly VM this morning, but didn't want to commit that in writing later b.c. I got this;
"I will be there at 4 to take S5. Please have him in his shinguards and shoes.
thx"
I'm sitting on my hands until I get over the temptation to send this ?%#@ a reply. We'll see how much self control I have.
SD-I'm right at that point you're talking about, it's difficult to keep up positive feelings after this length of time.
L-Ahum....Looking forward to that update you've been taking about!
Nothing has been filed or mentioned re:the papers he gave me on the 8th. If he wants me to sign anything, he'll have to file first. Until then, I'm moving on with the focus on me & the kids. I'm still not going to date, I have no interest at all. That route would just leave more body parts in my wake & would likely add confusion.
Would a short little curt response to his e-mail be bad, or would that be rising to the bait. I know the answer, just don't care what response he would have at the moment. At the moment is key I guess.
