I think the WASs think they will never get caught. They are on another planet where nothing else matters. i recently aske d my W, how can you throw away your family and the house of your dreams for a .......she was just quiet. i think she is getting to a point where she is pissed at herself....probably not for what she did but for getting caught.
On the kids front, the only way I would bring it up is if the kids begin to blame me for the divorce. Other than that....why would I want the kids to be pissed at their mom?
