I'm trying to keep my expectations low but this job loss thing has really brought me back into the game. I really am starting to see the effects of her choices piling up on her.

Hello Image,

I was just reading your recent posts, and I'm curious about the statement above. It seems like your wife is feeling the effects of choices and/or things she has no control over. You mentioned difficulties in finances, emotions and etc. Can you elaborate on the emotions and other parts? I would like to know only because if our spouses are having emotional difficulties in certain areas of their lives because of a dramatic change in their outlook, how can that effect our chances of revival? I've yet to learn this, and since my H's best friend committed suicide last week, he has been much less angry with me, and more compassionate, strangely enough???

thanks in advance,
poet