Question here

how do you handle a disagreement when it seems like no sides are listening?

i have a firm belief
a battle worth fighting for

and

the other person says they share that but are not showin git in actions

everytime i try to bring this up i am told i am testing our friendship

and

i guess i am
i mean
it's not a pop quiz
it was clearly laid out

but they get really defensive when i call them on it...when i question their actions

i am told that i am sayign oen thing and then another, which i don't feel but maybe i am

how do you resolve this sort of thing

in the past i would suck it up and hold it in or cut and run from the friendship

i don't WANT to do either

suggestions please????