I've been thinking a lot about the need for proof and an honest conversation. Do I need proof for some other reason? What if I had the proof and still couldn't get an honest conversation what would I do then? I don't think I need any more proof. What I need to do is to stop waiting because it's scary and take the next step.
I'm going to make an appointment with my IC for early next week and an appointment with the lawyer for Thursday 1500 which is an hour or so after she has to be at work. Then, I'll take the day off and call her a little bit before she takes the littlest one to school.
I could use some input on where to have this discussion. I was thinking at the family home, but, we could go to the park or sit in the car or even at a restaurant over lunch.