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I've said this on my thread--but I often wonder if my H is thinking keeping with the A and the "single" life is easier than giving the M a try-then he doesn't have to deal with the crap. He has been known in his life to take the easy way out and to come back to the marriage would take much work and would require a lot of pride to be swallowed--and I'm not sure his ego could withstand that


This is it in a nutshell for me.


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.