Take a look at my post on WAS. A good friend of mine who I NEVER EVER thought would "wake up" and realize her D was a mistake seems to finally be doing it!!!
Of course it's too late for her marriage, but it's interesting to see nevertheless.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
root.....do you have a link to the thread ? Thank in advance.....every woman that I have split with, I knew they were gone for good. This time I can't shake this feeling......
P.S. I love stories of people coming around
M 31 W 26 M 6 S 6 S 3 Separated 6/2008 Back together 10/2008 All you need is love
totally missing my wife big time....I guess I am sort of glad that she hasn't come back and left and come back. Doesn't make this easier though. But as puppy says there's no combination of words to get her to come back. I have to accept she's gone. The things she says really get to me, it's hard to not believe everything I hear.....and about once a week she asks if I signed yet :-(
When will this end ? At least the affair only lasted 2 months and not the typical 6, but she still doesn't want back in :-(
M 31 W 26 M 6 S 6 S 3 Separated 6/2008 Back together 10/2008 All you need is love
Here's hoping everyone has a great weekend....tomorrow is my son's second birthday.... Unfortunately he needs two parties because my wife won't speak to my parents.....6 months ago my brothers wife cheated on him and my wife sat there and badmouthed her.....guess who did the exact same thing and is too ashamed to face her in laws......not that she feels remorse or anything
M 31 W 26 M 6 S 6 S 3 Separated 6/2008 Back together 10/2008 All you need is love
((((BC)))) I hope your DS has a great birthday and that things improve for you soon. I'm sorry if my last post sounded harsh. This situation is hard enough to deal with, without an unplanned pregnancy thrown in too. Take care of yourself and do the best you can. My heart hurts for you.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Quite alright sugar. Just want her back, but I have to sit here helpless, DBing and caring for our son
Thats all you can do. ((((Hugs))))
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
