Tal,

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He'd been so entrenched in his perception of me, that he believed that I only wanted him back because I "hate to lose"
This, in a nutshell, was what kept my W from believing that I loved her, and that the changes I was making would be permanent ones. On the other hand, it feels damn good to have won!

Congratualations again. There are so many sad stories on these boards. It's so good to read about your success.

Brian